Saturday, July 31, 2010
Thank you so much for the lists!
I can't even tell you how much I appreciate it - like ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((this)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) much!
Now, I am going to compile them all and start my shopping.
My mom is coming to town for a visit next week and I am going to put her and Yvan's momma to work helping me shop!!! Hee!
Also, ordered a toddler bed that converts to a double bed and a dresser for Ade's room.
This is a huge step people! It was so hard to press the "confirm your order" button because I am used to living in a state of paranoia but I did it!!!
P.S. Shelley - I loved all your emails and your excel spread sheet -AMAZING!
Seriously, I love you all so much!!!
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Actually, I need your lists!!!
Pretty please? With sugar on top?
I have been having a bit of a panic attack this week because I HAVE NOTHING READY!!!
What have I been doing the last, oh 12 months!!!!????
O.k. I know what I have been doing.....waiting...to be sure this was all going to work out.
While nothing is 100% yet until we get that visa, I need to get our bags packed for Ethiopia.
I need lists of what to bring.
My brain is running amok people - AMOK!!!
I have no idea how to pack for a toddler.
I know he needs clothes.
My friend Cheryl suggested lots of toys because he will be busy.
What else do I need?
I know some of you lovely BTDT's have some great lists so could you share your knowledge and experience with me?
Maybe just post 5 or 6 items you absolutely could not have done without.
Do you think you could do that for little old me?
I will send you hugs and kisses if you do :)
Friday, July 23, 2010
I know it seems silly to be celebratory but we had a wee celebration tonight and maybe a tear or two were shed.
It, as many of you know, has been an extremely long haul.
The year anniversary of our referral is next week - who would have thought we would only be at the immigration stage just now...not me that is for sure.
We are still being very cautious - immigration processing used to take 3 weeks, now it can be anywhere from 6 weeks to 16 weeks!!!
But still, we are celebrating in our small way.
I really need to get the room done, clothes purchased, the home child-proofed!
If you build it, he will come!!!!
Say it with me!
IF YOU BUILD IT! HE WILL COME!!
P.S. I might have a had a cocktail or two tonight to celebrate so please excuse any grammatical errors on my part :0
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Kristie, the oh-so talented, cake lady showing her cake! Thank you so much Kristie - you are an amazing friend!
I have been pretty quiet on the adoption front lately. It has been hard to blog about my wait knowing there are good friends of mine going through the hardest time right now. I think of these lovely ladies every day - Steph, Lyndsey, Colleen, Alex, Jen, Bonnie and Kelly (and anyone else who might be caught in Oromia) - know there are so many of us sending love and hugs to you!
It has been almost 7 weeks since we passed court. I did really good the first 4 weeks - there were smiles all around.
Now. the anxiousness is creeping back in.
Last week I was a festival of water works again.
We are ready.
Ade needs to come home.
Our docs should be headed to Nairobi next week if all goes well....and then the final step begins.
It used to take 3 weeks to get a visa and now the new norm is anywhere from 6 to 16 weeks.
I'm not going to set myself up for failure by hanging on to the 6 weeks but I'm also hoping with every fibre of my being it won't be the 16 weeks.
As for Ade's room - well..that is a work in progress. I;m having a hard time with it.
I started cleaning it out - moved the office downstairs and just need to get the big furniture out.
Shopping still needs to be done and I really want to get out and do it but I am still so scared something will go wrong. So I am waiting a bit before I really get into it but I promise to post pictures when it is all done.
It has been a long haul and we both feel like our hearts still need protecting. Logically we know he is coming home but when is the bigger question.
Honestly, until he is in our arms, we won't be able to rest easy.