Friday, April 30, 2010

On to the Next Date

May 30th!

I knew it would take more than one date...I just didn't know it would be 30 days or so before we would get a second chance...seems with everyone trying to get a court application made before May 9th court dates have become scarce.

If you are looking for me, I will be having a long, hot shower for the next month!!!

45 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Rana

So sorry to hear that you will be waterlogged from all that showering. lol. Really disappointing with your news. I just pray the process will change such that when we go over for court, we can stay there and come home sooner with our children!!! Many prayers for you and your family!

Crystal

Nicole Bellefleur said...

I'm really sorry, Rana. Big hug to you.

CinnamonOpus said...

Oh honey. That sucks. Many big, big hugs from us.

Janna said...

Oh no! Well, that sucks. You're going to be super-pruny by the time May 30 rolls around if you spend it in the shower. Also, I'm guessing you'll run out of hot water long before then.

Carolyn said...

I so wish I could make all this go away and just have your baby boy in your arms. I am here anytime to listen or vent with you.


Carolyn

hotflawedmama said...

I was hoping you'd be one to sneak through on one date. :( One more month, okay. Ugh.

tobink said...

What the?!

No no no. No. I'm so sorry.

On to the next date, as you say: the final date.

Karen

D Dae said...

Well Pooey... that really sucks.

I am so sorry. :(

I hope it was something minor that they can easily deal with on May 30.

Do you need to travel for the next one?

{{hugs}} to you both

Lisa and Jason said...

Oh Rana

I'm so sorry! We (along with everyone else) were really hoping you'd be one of the ones that got lucky enough to sneak through on the first time :(

Thinking about you lots. . .

Lisa

Julie said...

No! Not fair! Rana! I'm sorry.

Ramona said...

OH Rana. Every delay hurts... and you would know that!!! And courts not going through are horrible... but waiting another 30 days???!!! Come on! I'm praying for you and sending you hugs.
Ramona

Shannon said...

Wishing you peace to get you through the next month!

Gabrielle said...

Ugh. I know you are very disappointed. Hugs!

BCMommy said...

No no no!!!

Do you need me to kick someone in the b*x for you, 'cause I'll do it...

This sucks rocks, Rana. If you need anything, we are all here for you :(

Claire

Gail said...

Rana

I.m so sorry.

Huge hugs to the both of you from Kristin and I.

Gail

Dianne said...

No!! Rana, I'm so sorry. Sending the hugest of hugs to you, and prayers for better news in 30 days.

Rhonda, Kristin, Eden said...

I'm sorry guys, this is just so disappointing. I thought #1 would be the one. Ok, here's to #2 being the one.

Tova said...

Am I allowed to swear on this blog? I'm not sorry yet, I will get there. I am FUCKING MAD! You didn't deserve this. But we both know that what happens in an adoption is not related to whether we deserve something or not. Standing in a hot shower in solidarity with you. Fuck, fuckity, fuck. Fuck!

Brendan and Mary said...

NOOO!!! My heart aches for you. I am so sorry. This is so ridiculous. Call me if you want to get together or if there is anything I can do for you.

Big hugs...

Lisa said...

Oh Rana I am so sorry to hear you didn't pass court...hoping and praying that you will pass court the end May. Hope May fly's by for ya!

Sharla said...

I think maybe you ought to invest in another hot water tank and you can move your office into the bathroom and just hang out in the shower until May 30th!

I'm so sorry that you didn't pass. You know with all the other delays you've had, I kind of felt like you deserved to pass on the first court date even though I know that is not actually how it works. I am really sorry. I am glad that at least you know your next date but it will be a long month for you until then, I am sure.

Jess said...

that just sucks....

emily and mike said...

Oh Rana (and Yvan)! This is SO frustrating. I'm so sorry you didn't get the one time court miracle! I'm sending you a huge hug and praying for good news on May 30th.

Don't know what else to say. I hate saying "hang in there" because I'm pretty sure I've already told you that a hundred times!

xoxo

hazel said...

Damn!Damn!Damn!Damn!Damn!Damn!Damn! I thought this was it. I am sorry Rana and Yvan. Number 2 is the charm, then.

Melissa said...

:(

Boooo

Curvy Runner said...

After all that you've been through-sheesh. That's all I have to say.

Karen said...

UGH! BIG FAT UGH! SO unfair! (feeling about the same as Sharla's comments). I'm SO sorry to hear the disappointing news and can't wait to hear you are on the other side of this journey/trek/marathon... oh, there's probably a better word to describe it...

Claudia said...

Oh, so sorry there is MORE waiting. But incredibly glad you've got another date... am looking forward to seeing photos of your pruney, wrinkled, waterlogged self shouting for joy in a month's time :)

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear about court, I was hoping and praying you'd get through first time. Here's to May being a quick month with a happy ending. L Galloway

Janice said...

I was so hoping you would pass on the first go.
Sorry to hear it's another month of waiting. Ugh!

june said...

Shoot. At least you found out quickly... here's hoping it's lucky #2.

Littleone said...

Oh Rana and Yvan.....I don't even know what to say but I think Tova said it best!

Connie said...

Oh, what a disappointment! At least you found out quickly (unlike us who had to wait almost 2 weeks).
Another month is way too long to have to wait. I hope you find a way to make it go by quickly.

Rowan Family said...

Hang in there, kiddo - it'll come.

We had SEVEN - but that's not the norm. I can assure you!

Nicky

Heidi said...

Oh Crap Rana! I was so hoping that with all the waiting you have already been through that maybe, just maybe, you would get through on the first try.

Thinking of you...
Heidi

Curvy Runner said...

Rana, I am a pretty lucky woman these days so I am just gonna send you some right now! Are ya ready here it comes........LUCKLUCKLUCKLUCKLUCK

There-now you are covered for sure!

Anonymous said...

Rana,
So sorry to hear such disappointing news. Here's hoping May flies by. Be strong.
Jen D

natasha said...

what can I say. I am continuing to think of you and hoping #2 is the real deal.
love Natashad

Kendra said...

Rana, I am sorry to hear this. I was hoping with all the crap you have had to go through that this one thing would be easy. I am glad you got the next court date already so there is something to look forward too. #2 will be the one!

The Gaboury's said...

Oh Rana

There is no other words except THAT SUCKS!!!!
Debbie

Lisa, Pierre, Marika,Karelle, Yakim and Tarik said...

Sorry to hear about the news.. been praying for your family and hoping you will all be together really soon !

Lisa

Stephanie said...

Sooooo frusturated for you!

Steph

Sharla said...

20 more days...it's getting a little bit closer...hang in there!

emily and mike said...

Do you have any amazingly good news too Rana????
Thinking of you guys!!!

Karen said...

Oh, I'm SO HOPING.... i keep checking...